If you’re ready to add a dash of excitement and exploration to your sex lives, you’ve come to the right place. In this deep dive (pun intended), we’re outlining the very best lesbian strap-ons that promise pleasure, comfort and a whole lot of fun. Our team has perfectly categorised them for you so you can check out a range for all of your needs. Whether you’re a beginner or a pro in the strap-on world, this guide has you covered, if you have any questions for the team, please comment at the bottom of the article and we will get back to you.
So, strap in (too easy) for a journey into the world of sensational strap-ons for lesbian and queer couples! This article contains the below:
What is a strap-on?
What to consider when shopping for a strap-on
Strap-Ons for Beginners
Strap-Ons for Pros
Strap-on Accessories
What is a strap-on?
Have you ever wondered about the buzz around strap-ons? Well, they’re not just a prop in adult films. A strap-on is a versatile accessory that adds a new dimension to intimacy. Whether you’re exploring new realms of pleasure or just curious, strap-ons are essentially harnesses with a dildo attached. They’re not exclusive to any gender or sexual orientation—anyone can enjoy the added fun and connection they bring to the bedroom. So, if you’re looking to spice things up or expand your horizons, a strap-on might be the playful addition you never knew you needed.
What to consider when shopping for a strap-on
So, you’re thinking about diving into the world of strap-ons? Fantastic! Before you embark on this journey, here are a few friendly tips to consider. We chatted to our pals over at Sh! – the sex shop for women, who gave us some top tips below:
- Comfort is Key: Opt for a harness that’s comfy – you want something that feels like a second skin, not a medieval torture device, with bruising buckles and clips. If you’re planning on sharing thrusting duties, make sure it’s adjustable too, and buy to fit whoever is larger/curvier.
- Size Matters (But Not How You Think): Choose a dildo size that aligns with your comfort and desires. It’s not about going big or going home; it’s about what feels right for you and your partner. Width is the most important dimension to get right as a too-wide dildo will be uncomfortable. Think about how many fingers feel good and start with a dildo of similar diameter. Length is less important, as you can always limit how far you slide it in!
- Material World: Think about the material. Silicone is the best material for dildos as it’s body-safe and non-porous. Steer clear of PVC dildos as they contain Phthalates. For the harness, the fabric is easy to clean, but won’t support large/heavier dildos well; soft leather feels supple against the skin.
- Ease of Cleaning: Speaking of cleaning, make sure your strap-on is easy to sanitize. After all, the last thing you want is a complicated cleanup post-adventure. Fused strap-ons (where the dildo is permanently attached to the strap) are impossible to keep clean and should be used with condoms.
- Versatility Vibes: Some harnesses allow for interchangeable dildos. It’s like a mix-and-match for pleasure. Consider if this flexibility suits your style.
- Budgeting Bliss: Set a budget. Quality strap-ons come in various price ranges, so find one that fulfils your desires without emptying your wallet.
- Communication is Sexy: If you’re shopping for a strap-on with a partner, talk it out. Discuss desires, expectations, and boundaries. It’s not just a shopping trip; it’s a bonding experience.
Strap-Ons for Beginners
Selecting the correct strap-on as a beginner is always a bit daunting. We highly recommend involving your partner fully. Firstly, because it’s all part of the fun shopping and discussing together, and secondly they are the ones that will benefit from this little (or large) purchase. See our selection of strap-ons for beginners below.
Sh! Best Strap-On Kit
Everything you need in one box. Sh’s best-selling strap-on combo includes their bestselling soft leather harness and Cupid 3 silicone dildo, along with lube, and toy cleaner in a sturdy storage box, perfect for sliding everything neatly under the bed for next time…
Sh! straps and dildos are designed by lesbians, for lesbians, and are handmade in the UK, so they also reduce your sex-toy miles!
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Lovehoney Beginner’s Strap-On Kit
Adjustable strap-on harness set with 5-inch dildo for first-time strap-on play. This is a great kit, as it comes with the harness, the rings and the dildo so it means you can just buy one thing, receive in the post and away you go. No confusion.
Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs
Unisex briefs with O-ring for strap-on sex and packing. We love these because they are super comfortable and make you feel less exposed.
Scandal Crotchless Set
No straps or complicated parts. Just a note with this one, this is technically for pegging, however, we wanted to include it because the panties are crotchless, so switch out the anal dildo for a dildo of your choice and you’re good to go. Unless you also like anal and then in that case you’re good to go with these as they are.
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Lovehoney Perfect Partner 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On 6 Inch
Vibrating strap-on with a 6-inch realistic dildo for strap-on and pegging play. This one is super fun because it vibrates. The only drawback of this one is the wire, but you’ll figure it out in the end.
Ann Summers Beginners Strap on Set
This is a great first-time option as it has a double band belt which comes with a 5.25-inch silicone dildo. It also comes with three interchangeable rings so you are able to attach a range of different dildos and vibrators.
Ann Summers Be Proud Vibrating Strap On Set
This kit really does have everything if you want to be sure you’ve got the right size. Designed to be completely adjustable, the Vibrating Strap On Set can be customised to fit sizes from XS to XL. This set includes a rechargeable vibrating bullet with 3 different speeds and 7 vibration patterns, 3 different-sized O-rings, one larger smooth silicone dildo and one smaller smooth silicone dildo with a ridged tip for a different sensation.
Strap-Ons for Pros
Ok so you might have been doing this for a while, you managed to master the standard strap-on strap, and you’re ready for the next level. Well, we have that for you right here in the format of strapless strap-ons. What-the-f is that? we hear you say. Well, read on to discover a whole new world.
Before you branch out into this world though, we’d like to inform you that they are difficult to use without strong PC muscles and even then are best for intimate, grinding together, rather than wild thrusting (thanks to Sh! for that tip).
Lovehoney Double Take Double-Ended Strap-On Dildo
A double-ended dildo and strap-on harness set
Ann Summers Be Proud Remote Strapless Strap On
Made from a soft silicone material, the shorter end sits internally and comfortably massages erogenous zones whilst the longer end can be used to stimulate your partner. This harness-free strap-on provides complete pleasure through the ripples on the pronounced central ridge.
Sh! Strapless
Different to every other strapless, designed to be more ‘upstanding’, so it extends upwards from the wearer’s body (rather than flopping forward;) Great for intimate connection and also feeling like you own a d*ck, if that’s your gig.
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Ann Summers Non-Vibrating Strapless Strap On
Created with your pleasure in mind, it is made from body-safe silicone with a longer insertable end of 5 inches, this shorter end is held securely in place internally with ridges for targeted stimulation whilst wearing.
Licking Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On
Vibrating strapless strap-on with a clitoral stimulator for amazing strap-on sex. This one is pricey but definitely worth every penny. It also has a remote control which lets you explore three vibration patterns and three intensities from three individual motors. Three is apparently a magic number in this case.
Boutique Leg Strap-On Harness
Perhaps you actually want to try another style strap. This one straps to your thigh and gives you a completely different experience. You’re able to control it in a different way.
Strap-on Accessories
So, you’ve made it this far into the article. You go Glenn CoCo! Hopefully, by now you have decided on what strap-on to purchase, and perhaps you also want to add some accessories to that bad boy. Read on to find out what you might need to supplement your night.
Sh! Dual Dildo Accessory
Enjoying simultaneous penetration with your lover can feel deeply intimate and this clever little cuff holds a 2nd dildo onto the leg straps of a harness, turning it into a penetration provider for the strap-on wearer, as well as for the receiver!
Bananapant Dildo Bases
Innovative, lesbian-designed dildo accessories nestle against the harness-wearer’s clit and vaginal opening to deliver sensual stimulation, along with protection against any discomfort during vigorously passionate strap-on sessions.
Lube, Lube, Lube!
Seriously, it’s your best friend for a smooth and enjoyable experience.
Ann Summers Silky Waterbased Lube
Different Attachments
Spice things up with various attachments for different sensations.
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Adjustable Harness
Comfort is key! Look for a harness that’s easily adjustable to fit you perfectly, but also consider how it makes you feel. We have some great options below.
Storage Bag or Box
Keep things organized and discreet with a cute storage bag. No one wants their parents to find their strap-on! Yikes!
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Leaf Remote Panty Vibe
Attaches to underwear harnesses to deliver extra thrills with your every thrust.
Cleaning Supplies
Maintain hygiene with toy-friendly cleaners or mild soap.
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And there we have it gals. Remember, this is about pleasure and exploration, so have fun finding the perfect strap-on for your desires.
Enjoy,
Team Nonchalant x
This article was written by one of our creative team writers here at Nonchalant Magazine.
